Sunday, August 27, 2017
Thursday, August 24, 2017
Tuesday, August 22, 2017
An Eclipse Postscript

Monday, August 21, 2017
Sunday, August 20, 2017
Honoring a Best Friend
Today I spoke at a childhood friend's "celebration of life," which was heartbreaking. Lizzy passed away from a rare and aggressive form of ovarian cancer in May. She was my best friend for most of my childhood. We met when we were both seven, swam competitively together for many years, and then went to the same high school. As adults, our lives rarely intersected geographically, though she was at our wedding and I was at her first baby shower, so we did share important milestones. Still, our friendship has always felt like a part of me, perhaps because we were both pretty good about keeping in touch through long letters throughout the year and, more recently, newsy birthday and Christmas cards.
I spoke to her about a week before she died, which I am so grateful for. She spoke with peace and certainty that we would see each other again and that she would soon be in the embrace of her parents, who each died just a few years ago. She also spoke about her wonderful kids and I got to see their courage, humor, and strength in action when they spoke at her celebration. Boy, was I impressed.
It was a lovely afternoon and a privilege to honor her friendship by revisiting our childhoods together. As I told those gathered, she set a standard for best friends that has been hard to beat. I loved hearing more about her from others, especially her kids, and it was a blessing to reconnect with her sisters.
Love you, Lizzy.
I spoke to her about a week before she died, which I am so grateful for. She spoke with peace and certainty that we would see each other again and that she would soon be in the embrace of her parents, who each died just a few years ago. She also spoke about her wonderful kids and I got to see their courage, humor, and strength in action when they spoke at her celebration. Boy, was I impressed.
It was a lovely afternoon and a privilege to honor her friendship by revisiting our childhoods together. As I told those gathered, she set a standard for best friends that has been hard to beat. I loved hearing more about her from others, especially her kids, and it was a blessing to reconnect with her sisters.
Love you, Lizzy.
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We had both just turned eight in this photo |
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Synchronized swimming duet partners, age 11-ish. By age ten, we were doing swim-a-thons in which we'd swim up to six miles at a time! |
Saturday, August 19, 2017
Thursday, August 17, 2017
An Evening With the Giants
Great evening. Thanks Tim and Susie for the tickets! I bought a standing-room one for me and stood behind the girls section, watching them watch the game. That was my favorite part of the evening, getting to see them in the moment, really enjoying each other's company. (Though it is worth noting, for the baseball-superstitious, that they've won every time we've been there this year. Hmmmmm....)


Monday, August 14, 2017
Saturday, August 12, 2017
Friday, August 11, 2017
Birthday Celebrations
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This would NOT be my reaction if someone gave me a sewing machine. But glad it was hers! |
Then we went to the zoo, where all of the animals seemed to be out in force to celebrate G's big day. The tiger was pacing, the ostrich pooped, the otter was jumping, the hippo pooped, the lions were alert and the snow leopard was pacing, the prairie dogs pooped... well, there was a lot of energy around pooping. We also saw a lot of activity from the cutie black bear cubs, the grizzlies, the red panda and well, pretty much everything there except the polar bears (hiding in back) and the kangaroos (lying down and not moving). It might have been the time of day (afternoon), the weather (cool), or the lack of crowds, but we had a great time...
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Mexican wolves, the reason we went |

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Almost posing |
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Definitely posing |
Wednesday, August 9, 2017
Tuesday, August 8, 2017
Library

Monday, August 7, 2017
Sunday, August 6, 2017
Saturday, August 5, 2017
Friday, August 4, 2017
Testing The Power of Literature
They wanted to know what would happen if they went to a coffee shop, ordered, then listed the name to be called as "Lord Voldemort." Would she know how to spell it, look at the kids funny? Would the one who brought the food pronounce that final "t" or would she even 'have the nerve' to use the name?
The first cashier got it and said, "oh, he who shall not be named" but the one who actually called out when the food was ready was a bit anticlimactic and just said, "LV." Worth a try and I think that the girls were at least impressed that first one had been willing to write it down! :-)
Incidentally, we have concluded that while the movies are great, the books are far greater and - surprising for me - totally worth a closer, second read.
The first cashier got it and said, "oh, he who shall not be named" but the one who actually called out when the food was ready was a bit anticlimactic and just said, "LV." Worth a try and I think that the girls were at least impressed that first one had been willing to write it down! :-)
Incidentally, we have concluded that while the movies are great, the books are far greater and - surprising for me - totally worth a closer, second read.
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